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Holy Week with Littles

I come from an evangelical background. I never knew what Holy Week was until adulthood. My family didn’t honor Holy Days or institute regular Jewish Seders and feasts. I am changing that for my children and here is why:

“Family traditions counter alienation and confusion. They help us define who we are; they provide something steady, reliable and safe in a confusing world.” – Susan Lieberman

While my boys are not Jewish, or liturgical, the symbolism in these feasts and holidays are paramount to rooting them in our faith. I view Jesus as the Messiah who fulfilled the promise of the Jewish covenant with Yahweh. I want our boys to know that while the Church is made up of every believer and is not a building, it was instituted thousands of years ago by our Savior and beautiful, meaningful traditions were established to anchor us in our faith and commitment and understanding of scripture.

So, here we are in the thick of a Christian’s most triumphant season. Christ is celebrated. Christ is murdered. Christ is dead. Christ is alive! He is risen! These statements are powerful and I want our kids to have images in their mines and deep understanding of what these statements mean.

We started Palm Sunday using Rich + Rooted Passover by Jennifer Naraki. You can purchase it here. We sang an appropriate hymn and looked at some classical artwork together. While looking at the art, we answered the questions our children had about the lamb.

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Agnus Dei, c.1635-40 (oil on canvas) by Zurbaran, Francisco de (1598-1664)

On Monday, we began our morning by writing “Hosanna” on a white tea towel. We discussed this as a shout of joy! A praise. We read about Jesus triumphantly riding a donkey through the city streets while being celebrated by onlookers. We discussed the culture and how this was what a conquering King would have done in those days. When a King won a mighty battle and took over a city or country, he would ride through the streets in victory, his enemies drug behind him, often dead, always defeated. This is so powerful and symbolic. Jesus defeated principalities of darkness and his victory ride through Jerusalem what defining that battle as His.

On Monday afternoon, we gathered some succulents, soil, a small pot, a stone, flowers, and a hanging planter. The boys helped forage for sticks and make three crosses. I ask them to explain why their were three crosses on that hill. I asked them to tell me what they knew about the tomb. They remarked on how ours was empty. We discussed that. We talked about the celebration of Passover we will have Thursday and how we are not looking for Elijah, but Christ’s return! We made a living Resurrection Garden that we can care for all year.

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On Tuesday and Wednesday we will begin preparing food for our Passover Seder. The boys have been memorizing The Four Questions, just as young Jewish children do all over the world. We use this book to help learn the questions in English.

On Wednesday we will look at this famous painting and the boys will explain to me what they see.

Prior to our Seder, the boys will help me make Afikomen bags. We like to write the Hebrew letters for Yeshua on our bags to represent Jesus being our bread of life. This is a very simple craft to do with little ones. I asked a local grocery store for some paper bags and cut long rectangles. I folded each rectangle in half and then hole punched the two open sides for the boys to lace thread through.

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I am often asked if we color eggs. We do. Our Seder has a boiled egg which is symbolic of the sacrifices given at the temple. However, I choose to focus my children on how we no longer must offer sacrifices and how the burden of our sin has been lifted. The coloring of our eggs is a celebration that we are free at last through our Passover Lamb and Messiah, from our sin. I do not choose to place these eggs in Easter baskets, and we don’t do a whole lot with bunnies during this time. Although I see bunnies as a Spring animal and we do learn about them!

We have our Passover Seder on Maundy Thursday. If we follow the life of Jesus, it seems He would have celebrated Passover with the disciples on this day. He washed their feet, He served them, He broke bread with them, and he revealed His plan to them more fully. At our Seder we behave similarly and follow more of Jesus’ model. We serve one another lovingly as we retell the ancient story.

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On Good Friday, the boys will help me color eggs and we will choose a famous painting to recreate. On Holy Saturday we will prepare our Empty Tomb Rolls. These are so much fun to make. You can use crescent rolls in a can or use your favorite sweet dough recipe. we take marshmallows, roll them in butter, and dip them in spices (cinnamon, nutmeg, cardamom, and cloves). This marshmallow represents Jesus and the spices and butter are the anointing oil and burial spices used ceremonial during that time in history. Then we wrap him in his grave clothes (wrapping the dough) and seal the tomb tightly (pinching the dough around the marshmallow). On Sunday morning I bake them and the boys wake to an empty tomb! He is risen! Christ the Lord is RISEN!

I hope you find some encouragement for your family traditions here. Please leave a comment and share great resources and/or books you use to honor Jesus during Holy Week.

Happy Learning,

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Lent & Passover – Resources for your family

I grew up with Passover Seder being customary and influenced most by my paternal Grandmother, Isabelle. She would roast lamb and set out the Seder plate and explain the items. She also would serve a delicious mint jelly for the roasted lamb dinner. Before the lamb and vegetables was a first course of homemade matzoh ball soup and latkes aplenty, paired with both applesauce and sour cream.Yum!

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As a teen, my parents took me to a really great church that hosted a Passover Seder every year complete with worship, traditional music, and dancing! It was the highlight of my church memories even before I chose Jesus.

Last year, the boys helped create Afikomen bags for our hidden matzoh. They practiced saying “Yeshua” and we even wrote His Hebrew name on the bags. We plan on doing this again this year.

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I preface our family’s Passover Seder traditions with these glimpses into the past because it is paramount to setting up why I still celebrate.

Deuteronomy 6:5-9

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. Take to heart these words that I give you today. Repeat them to your children. Talk about them when you’re at home or away, when you lie down or get up. Write them down, and tie them around your wrist, and wear them as headbands as a reminder. Write them on the door frames of your houses and on your gates.”

This scripture is the premise for our Passover. I am continually brought back to it both as I prepare my heart and busy my hands with the preparations.

I believe Messiah has come. Yeshua. Jesus. He fulfilled the Promise and the law. Yet, I obey His command to teach my children about His ways. One of the primary ways to do that is through this feast.

This all symbolizes Jesus for our family and how he is the hidden pearl of great price. He is the bread broken for us. He took the stripes just like the stripes matzoh. When we seek Him, He is found. When we find Him and hold fast to Him, we are gifted a great Prize. 

So, what are some great resources and ideas for celebrating with your family?

As I shared above, an Afikomen bag is a staple at a Passover Seder. The Seder leader hides the bag with a matzoh inside during the meal, then the children hunt for it. Once found, it is traded for a small prize (typically money), which represents finding the Bread of Life, is our great reward!

You can buy a beautiful afikomen bag or you can let your children have fun making their own. Our craft was simple. It required paper bags, markers, twine/string/yarn, tape (to seal the end of the twine or yarn for threading), and a hole punch.

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Cut your paper bag to a size that fits just around a piece off matzoh. It should make a pocket when folded over the matzoh. Older kids can hole punch each side themselves, or mom can do it for the little ones. We played traditional Passover music in Hebrew during our craft time. Tape the ends of the string you chose so it is easy for the child to thread in and out of the holes on each side.

Finally, you can discuss Yeshua and share the Hebrew letters for His name. The children may copy it onto their bags. We also copied a relevant scripture.

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Another wonderful resource we are using for the entire season of Lent, is Jennifer Naraki’s Rich + Rooted Passover.

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This curriculum is beautiful. It provides simple activities paired with scripture verses and token items to help symbolize the stories and theology surrounding this season. I suggest buying it about a month prior to Ash Wednesday in order to give yourself time to gather the suggested materials (many of which you may have in your home already). This curriculum starts on Ash Wednesday and can be the core of your traditions during this season.

Finally, here are some children’s book recommendations for this season:

Sammy Spider’s First Haggadah

Sammy Spider’s Passover Shapes

Jesus Is Alive: The Amazing Story (Bible Wise)

The Big Sister’s Secret : The Story of Miriam (Bible Wise)

The Biggest Story: How the Snake Crusher Brings Us Back to the Garden 

The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story Whispers His Name

 

I hope that you find Lent and Passover traditions that bring your family closer to Him.

On Arrow Hill,

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